Election Self-Care Kit
- Stick to neutral topics
- Pop culture, sports, and shared experiences like weather, food, etc. are a good way to go when it comes to making conversation.
- Don’t take the bait
- Someone will try to bring up the topic, but you don’t have to engage. Find another conversation that you can be a part of.
- Steer the conversation
- Talk about your favorite TV show, cat videos, food - absolutely anything you’re comfortable talking about!
- Admit when you’ve put your foot in your mouth
- Showing a return to self awareness is a good way to regain trust. Moments like that are opportunities to build bridges.
- If politics do come up, be prepared
- Bring the facts. Even when you disagree, respect others. Know where the line is, but also be prepared to be challenged or rebutted. Keep a respectful and civil tone if at all possible.
Adapted from UHCL The Signal
- It's inevitable. You know the people that have strong voices (opinions) on your social platforms. Take steps early to unfollow or mute them. If you don't have close relationships with them, de-friending them is always an option. Remember, they don't get notified that you made these changes. So de-stress yourself and remove these discussions and disturbing posts before they hit your feeds. Unfollow and mute (blocking and unfriending) can be your friendly tools throughout the election season. Use them generously. I did in 2016 and even after the election. It's amazing how much better you will feel when you tune-out unnecessary hate.
- Budget your time online. According to research, adults can spend up to 11 hours a day interacting with media. This includes getting their news. Social media sites (including websites) have surpassed print newspapers as a news source for Americans. Can you decipher fake news? Be careful what you spend your time on and don't spread cyber-gossip or information that is potentially false. That is just as bad as hate. By limiting the time you spend on social media, you will find the places that keep you well-informed on the topics that most interest you. You may eventually want to engage in conversations if you feel the thread has proven to be civil without hostility. Believe it or not, there are still people out there that can agree to disagree and have really great discussions and healthy debates.
- Breathe. We can't control how people behave online, but we can control how we respond to them. Your online behavior is a reflection of your offline character, so before you let your fingers go flying to respond to a critic's comment, pause. Is it really worth it? Sometimes the best way to discuss politics is offline with friends and family that understand you, not that they always agree with you, however they can give you a worthwhile debate without it going viral for the delight of potential trolls. There are many people that are able to navigate political conversations on social media, it's truly an art. However for the rest of us, you need to be prepared for the backlash of haters. We're never going to please everyone and we don't have to. We also need to be self-aware of what we put into the cyber-world. Are you about to risk your job? Maybe a potential scholarship? Is a strong opinion or proving a point really worth this type of loss? Don't allow politics to get the better of your online reputation. It's your future.
Adapted from Psychology Today
Rewatching your favorite show or Movie can provide great comfort during a time of uncertainty and unrest. Rewatching a show or movie that you had previously watched previously gives you the sense that you are”home”. Often settling in to watch a new show or movie can use a lot of energy but watching an old favorite allows us to relax and decompress.
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Interacting with pets can help relieve stress and bring down the stress hormone cortisol. When we are stressed it can be associated with an accelerated heart rate and blood pressure. When we are around pets and are petting them it helps to promote relaxation and also helps these stress symptoms.
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On average it is suggested that adults get about 7 to 9 hours of sleep per night to maintain their physical and mental health in addition to their overall well-being. Here are some things to help promote restful and productive sleep:
Limit screen exposure: Blue light tricks your body into thinking that it is daytime
Avoid Caffeine late in the day: Drinking large amounts of caffeine late in the day can affect your sleep quality.
Keeping a sleep schedule: Going to sleep and waking up at the same time each day can improve your sleep quality.
Exercise on a regular basis: Exercising on a regular basis can help to improve your health as well as your sleep.
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